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                           FARMERS & MERCHANTS BANCORP
                    121 West Pine Street, Lodi, CA 95240-2184




March 19, 2004



Dear Stockholder:

         The annual meeting of stockholders of Farmers & Merchants Bancorp (the
"Company") will be held this year at a new location, the Lodi Grape Festival,
Chardonnay Hall, 413 E. Lockeford Street, Lodi, CA, on Monday, April 19, 2004,
at 4:00 p.m. We look forward to your attendance.

         The enclosed proxy statement describes the business to be conducted at
the annual meeting, which includes the election of Directors, the ratification
of PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP as the Company's independent auditors and any
other matters which properly come before the meeting.

         A copy of the Company's 2003 Annual Report to Stockholders is also
enclosed.

         We hope you will be able to attend the annual meeting in person. Dinner
will be served after the meeting. The Directors and senior management greatly
appreciate the interest expressed by our stockholders. Whether or not you plan
to attend the annual meeting, it is important that you are represented and that
your shares are voted. Accordingly, after reviewing the enclosed proxy
statement, we ask you to complete, sign and date the enclosed proxy card and
return it as soon as possible in the postage-paid envelope that has been
provided for your convenience.


Sincerely,

/s/ Ole R. Mettler                        /s/ Kent A. Steinwert
Ole R. Mettler                            Kent A. Steinwert
Chairman of the Board                     President and Chief Executive Officer


Enclosures

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                           FARMERS & MERCHANTS BANCORP
                    121 West Pine Street, Lodi, CA 95240-2184

                    NOTICE OF ANNUAL MEETING OF STOCKHOLDERS

                            To be held April 19, 2004

To the Stockholders:

NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that the annual meeting of stockholders of Farmers &
Merchants Bancorp, a Delaware corporation (the "Company") will be held this year
at a new location, the Lodi Grape Festival, Chardonnay Hall, 413 E. Lockeford
Street, Lodi, CA, on Monday, April 19, 2004, at 4:00 p.m. to:

1.   Elect the following eleven (11) Directors to serve until the next annual
     meeting of stockholders or until their successors are elected and
     qualified:

           Stewart C. Adams, Jr.                       Harry C. Schumacher
           Ralph Burlington                            Kevin Sanguinetti
           Edward Corum, Jr.                           Kent A. Steinwert
           Robert F. Hunnell                           Ole R. Mettler
           Calvin (Kelly) Suess                        Carl A. Wishek, Jr.
           James E. Podesta


2.   Ratify the appointment of PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP, to act as the
     Company's independent auditors for the year ending December 31, 2004.

3.   Act upon such other matters as may properly come before such annual meeting
     or any adjournment or postponement thereof.

     The Board of Directors has fixed the close of business on March 5, 2004 as
the record date for determining the holders of the common stock of the Company
entitled to notice of, and to vote at, the annual meeting and any adjournments
thereof. A complete list of stockholders entitled to vote will be available for
inspection by stockholders of record at the office of the Secretary of the
Company at 111 West Pine Street, Lodi, CA for the ten days prior to the meeting.

     You are strongly encouraged to attend the annual meeting. Please complete,
sign and date, as promptly as possible, the enclosed proxy and immediately
return it in the envelope provided for your use. This is important whether or
not you plan to attend the annual meeting in person. The giving of such proxy
will not affect your right to revoke such proxy or to vote in person, should you
attend the annual meeting.

                                            BY ORDER OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS,


                                            /s/ Deborah Hodkin
                                            Deborah Hodkin
                                            Secretary
Dated:  March 19, 2004

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                             YOUR VOTE IS IMPORTANT
      TO INSURE YOUR VOTE IS REPRESENTED, YOU ARE URGED TO COMPLETE, SIGN,
                      DATE AND PROMPTLY RETURN YOUR PROXY.

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                                 PROXY STATEMENT
                           FARMERS & MERCHANTS BANCORP
                    121 West Pine Street, Lodi, CA 95240-2184

     This proxy statement is furnished to the stockholders of Farmers &
Merchants Bancorp (the "Company") in connection with the solicitation of proxies
by the Board of Directors of the Company to be used in voting at the annual
meeting of stockholders to be held on April 19, 2004 at the Lodi Grape Festival,
Chardonnay Hall, 413 E. Lockeford Street, Lodi, CA at 4:00 p.m., and at any
adjournment or postponement thereof. All expenses incidental to the preparation
and mailing, or otherwise making available to all stockholders of the notice,
proxy statement and form of proxy will be paid by the Company. This proxy
statement and the enclosed proxy are being mailed to the Company's stockholders
on or about March 19, 2004.

     This proxy statement outlines the business to be conducted at the annual
meeting, which includes the election of Directors and the ratification of
PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP as independent auditors.

Voting Rights and Vote Required

     Only stockholders of record at the close of business on March 5, 2004 (the
"record date"), will be entitled to vote in person at the meeting or by proxy.
On the record date, there were 763,239 shares of common stock outstanding and
entitled to vote.

     Holders of common stock of the Company are entitled to one vote for each
share held, other than with respect to the election of Directors. Due to the
application of Section 2115 of the California Corporations Code, each
stockholder may be eligible to exercise cumulative voting rights and may be
entitled to as many votes as shall equal the number of shares of common stock
held by such stockholder multiplied by the number of Directors to be elected,
and such stockholder may cast all of such votes for a single nominee or may
distribute them among two or more nominees. For example, if you own 10 shares of
common stock of the Company and 11 Directors are being elected, you have 110
votes - you can cast all of them for one nominee, or two or more nominees if you
so choose. No stockholder, however, shall be entitled to cumulate votes (i.e.,
cast for any one or more nominees a number of votes greater than the number of
shares of common stock of the Company held by such stockholder) unless the
name(s) of the nominee(s) has (have) been placed in nomination prior to the
commencement of the voting in accordance with Article III, Section 3.4 of the
Company's by-laws (which requires that nominations made other than by the Board
of Directors be made by notification in writing delivered or mailed to the
President of the Company not less than 30 days or more than 60 days prior to any
meeting of stockholders) and, in accordance with Article II, Section 2.9 of the
Company's by-laws, a stockholder has given at least two days written notice to
the Secretary of the Company of an intention to cumulate votes prior to the
vote. The Company's Annual Meeting of Stockholders is expected to be held on
April 19, 2004. Accordingly, any stockholder nomination for election to the
Board of Directors for the 2004 Annual Meeting of Stockholders, to be timely,
must be received by the Company not later than March 20, 2004 and not earlier
than February 19, 2004. If any stockholder has given such notice, all
stockholders may cumulate their votes for nominees, in which event votes
represented by proxies delivered pursuant to this proxy statement may be
cumulated, at the discretion of the proxy holders, in accordance with the
recommendation of the Board of Directors. Discretionary authority to cumulate
votes in such event is, therefore, solicited in this proxy statement.

     In the election of Directors, the 11 nominees receiving the highest number
of votes will be elected. Ratification of the selection of the independent
auditors and approval of such other matters which properly come before the
meeting, if any, will require the affirmative vote of a majority of the shares
represented and voting at the meeting provided the quorum requirements of
Article II, Section 2.7 of the by-laws are met, as described under the heading
"Voting of Proxies - Quorum" below. Abstentions will not count as votes in favor
of the election of Directors or any other proposals.

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Voting of Proxies - Quorum

     The shares represented by all properly executed proxies received in time
for the meeting will be voted in accordance with the stockholders' choices
specified therein; provided, however, that where no choices have been specified,
the shares will be voted "FOR" the election of the 11 nominees for Director
recommended by the Board of Directors, "FOR" the ratification of the appointment
of PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP as independent auditors, and voted at the
discretion of the proxy holders on such other matters, if any, which may
properly come before the meeting (including any proposal to adjourn the
meeting). A majority of the shares entitled to vote represented either in person
or by properly executed proxies, will constitute a quorum at the meeting.
Abstentions and broker "non-votes" are each included in the determination of the
number of shares present and voting for purposes of determining the presence of
a quorum. A broker "non-vote" occurs when a nominee holding shares for a
beneficial owner does not have discretionary voting power with respect to that
item and has not received instructions from the beneficial owner. Abstentions
will be included in tabulations of the votes cast on proposals presented to the
stockholders and therefore will have the effect of a negative vote. Broker
"non-votes" will not be counted for purposes of determining the number of votes
cast for a proposal.

Revocability of Proxy

     A stockholder using the enclosed proxy may revoke the authority conferred
by the proxy at any time before it is exercised (i.e., before the vote pursuant
to that proxy) by delivering written notice of revocation or a duly executed
proxy bearing a later date to the Secretary of the Company, or by appearing and
voting by ballot in person at the meeting. In the event that signed proxies are
returned without voting instructions, proxies will be voted in favor of election
of the eleven (11) persons nominated for election as Directors as set forth in
this Proxy Statement, the ratification of the appointment of
PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP as independent auditors, and such other matters, if
any, which may properly come before the meeting (including any proposal to
adjourn the meeting).

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                                   PROPOSAL 1

                              ELECTION OF DIRECTORS

         At the meeting, it will be proposed to elect eleven (11) Directors of
the Company, each to hold office until the next annual meeting and until their
successors shall be elected and qualified. It is the intention of the proxy
holders named in the enclosed proxy to vote such proxies (except those
containing contrary instructions) for the eleven (11) nominees named below.

         The following table sets forth the names of each of the nominees for
election as a Director, their age, their principal occupation for the past five
years and the period during which they have served as Director of the Company
(or the Bank).



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                                                      Principal Occupation                        Director
             Name        Age                         During Past Five Years                        Since
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Stewart C. Adams, Jr.      66     Attorney                                                          1997
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Ralph Burlington           80     Retired, Former Co-owner San Joaquin Sulfur Co.                   1968
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Edward Corum, Jr.          52     Owner, Corum Real Estate Investment Co.                           2003
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Robert F. Hunnell          83     Retired, Former Owner, Hunnell's Pharmacy                         1970
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Ole R. Mettler             86     Chairman of the Board and Retired Bank President                  1973
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James E. Podesta           83     Orchardist                                                        1980
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Kevin Sanguinetti          45     President, First American Title Co.                               2001
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Harry C. Schumacher        83     Retired since 1997, prior thereto President of the Bank           1997
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Kent A. Steinwert          51     President and Chief Executive Officer of the Company and          1998
                                  Bank
------------------------ -------- ------------------------------------------------------------- -------------
Calvin (Kelly) Suess       68     Co-owner, Lodi Nut Company, Inc.                                  1990
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Carl A. Wishek, Jr.        65     Assistant Vice President of the Bank                              1988
------------------------ -------- ------------------------------------------------------------- -------------


     None of the Directors of the Company were selected pursuant to arrangements
or understandings other than with the Directors and stockholders of the Company
acting within their capacity as such. There are no family relationships among
the Directors and executive officers of the Company, and none of the Directors
serves as a Director of any company which has a class of securities registered
under, or subject to periodic reporting requirements of, the Securities Exchange
Act of 1934, as amended, or any company registered as an investment company
under the Investment Company Act of 1940.

     The Board does not anticipate that any of the nominees will be unable to
serve as a Director of the Company, but if that should occur before the meeting,
the proxy holders, in their discretion, upon the recommendation of the Company's
Board of Directors, reserve the right to substitute as nominee and vote for
another person of their choice in the place and stead of any nominee unable so
to serve. The proxy holders reserve the right to cumulate votes for the election
of Directors and cast all of such votes for any one or more of the nominees, to
the exclusion of the others, and in such order of preference as the proxy
holders may determine in their discretion, based upon the recommendation of the
Board of Directors.

                  THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS A VOTE FOR
                           THE NOMINEES LISTED ABOVE.

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Board of Directors Meetings

     During the calendar year ending December 31, 2003, the Board of Directors
of the Company met eighteen (18) times and the Board of Directors of the Bank
met thirty-seven (37) times. Each incumbent attended more than 75% of the
meetings of the Board of Directors and Committees on which they served. All
eleven directors attended the annual meeting of shareholders in 2003.

Committees of the Board of Directors

     The Company's principal asset is its wholly-owned subsidiary, Farmers &
Merchants Bank of Central California (the "Bank"). The Directors of the Company
are also Directors of the Bank. As such, Bank Committees supervise and review
the activities of the Bank, which in turn report to the Company's Board of
Directors.

Nominating Committee

     The Board of Directors of the Company has a nominating committee; The
Committee met one (1) time in 2003. The committee is comprised of the following
voting members: Messrs. Mettler, Steinwert (Chairperson), Schumacher, Suess and
Hunnell. The Committee identifies candidates to serve as Directors of the Bank
and the Company in the event of future Board openings. As part of its nominating
responsibilities, the Nominating Committee will consider candidates nominated by
the Company's stockholders, directors, officers and from other sources. In
evaluating candidates, the Nominating Committee considers the attributes of the
candidate (including skills, experience, diversity, age and legal and regulatory
requirements) and the needs of the Board of Directors, and will review all
candidates in the same manner, regardless of the source of the recommendation.
The Nominating Committee will consider candidates nominated by the stockholders
of the Company for next year's meeting if the nomination is made in writing in
accordance with Article III, Section 3.4 of the By-Laws of the Company, as
described under the heading "Stockholder Proposals" below. Each of Messrs.
Schumacher, Suess and Hunnell has been determined by the Board of Directors to
be "independent" as such term is defined by Rule 4200(a)(15) of the NASD's
current listing standards. The Nominating Committee does not have a charter.

Audit Committee

     The Audit Committee of the Company and the Bank oversees and monitors the
activities of the internal and independent auditors of the Company and the Bank
with the aim of ensuring compliance with applicable laws. The Audit Committee
reports to the Boards of Directors of the Bank and the Company, as appropriate.
The Audit Committee reviews the reports of audits and examinations of the Bank
and the Company made by the independent auditors, internal auditors and
regulatory agencies. The Committee also reviews the examinations of Bank
operations, loans and credits and reports the results to the Boards of Directors
of the Bank and the Company. The Committee met twelve (12) times in 2003 and is
comprised of the following members: Messrs. Schumacher (Chairperson), Hunnell
and Burlington. Mr. Schumacher has been designated as the "financial expert"
(see Exhibit A) on the Audit Committee.

Expense Committee

     The Expense Committee of the Company and the Bank reviews and examines all
Bank and Company expenses on a monthly basis comparing the results with the
established annual budget, the previous month and prior year, and proposes
recommendations to management regarding controllable expenses. The Committee met
ten (10) times in 2003 and is comprised of the following voting members: Messrs.
Podesta (Chairperson), Suess and Wishek.

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CRA Committee (Community Reinvestment Act)

     The CRA Committee of the Company and the Bank monitors the Bank's efforts
and responsibilities to comply with the Community Reinvestment Act. The CRA
Committee makes recommendations to the Board of Directors to assure the Bank is
meeting the credit, investment and service needs of all segments of the
communities it serves. The Committee met twelve (12) times in 2003 and is
comprised of the following voting members: Messrs. Suess (Chairperson), Podesta
and Wishek.

Personnel Committee

     The Personnel Committee of the Company and the Bank reviews and establishes
the general employment and compensation practices and policies of the Bank and
approves procedures for the administration thereof. The Personnel Committee is
comprised of the following voting members: Messrs. Adams (Chairperson),
Sanguinetti, Corum and Schumacher. The Committee met four (4) times in 2003.
None of the members of the Committee are officers or employees of the Company or
the Bank.

Asset and Liability Management Committee

     The Asset and Liability Committee of the Company and the Bank is
responsible for the formulation, revision and administration of the Bank's
policies relating to interest rate, liquidity and investment risk management.
The Asset and Liability Committee is comprised of the following voting members:
Messrs. Hunnell (Chairperson), Schumacher and Steinwert. The Committee met nine
(9) times in 2003.

Loan Committee

     The Loan Committee of the Company and the Bank is responsible for the
formulation, revision and administration of the Bank's policy relating to credit
risk management. The Loan Committee meets weekly and is responsible for
approving all loans over $2 million and reviewing all loans over $500 thousand.
The Loan Committee is comprised of the following voting members: Messrs. Hunnell
(Chairperson), Mettler and Steinwert. The Committee met twenty-nine (29) times
in 2003.

Communications with Board of Directors

     If you wish to communicate with the Board of Directors you may send
correspondence to the Secretary, Farmers & Merchants Bancorp, 121 W. Pine
Street, Lodi, CA 95240-2184. The Secretary will submit your correspondence to
the Board of Directors or the appropriate committee, as applicable.

Reports of the Personnel and Audit Committees

     The reports of the Personnel Committee and the Audit Committee and
additional descriptions of their functions are as follows:

                        Report of the Personnel Committee
               of the Board of Directors on Executive Compensation

     The Personnel Committee of the Bank reviews and establishes the general
employment and compensation practices and policies of the Bank and approves
procedures for the administration thereof. The Board of Directors of the Bank,
operating through its Personnel Committee, establishes annual executive
compensation for the Chief Executive Officer of the Bank and the Company ("CEO")
and the other executive officers based on their performance and compensation
paid for similar positions at other banks of comparable size as determined
through research performed by independent third party consultants and published
in industry publications. This annual evaluation process establishes a
competitive base salary for each executive and offers incentive compensation,
which can provide additional compensation if established performance measures
are achieved.

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     The aggregate salary and bonus earned by each of the named executive
officers is set forth in the Summary Compensation Table below. Each named
executive receives a monthly base salary, and is eligible to receive an annual
cash bonus. Bank performance measures are established each year based on the
Bank's profit objectives. The extent to which these objectives are achieved
determines the annual cash bonus, if any, and merit increase earned by such
named executive officer.

     In evaluating the CEO's annual salary, the Personnel Committee considers a
combination of objective and subjective factors, including the following: the
Bank's financial performance, comparative executive compensation levels of peer
groups, and current economic conditions. The performance measures used in
determining the CEO's annual cash bonus are based on the Company's performance
relative to the current year's budget as well as progress towards achieving the
Company's five year strategic plan. Both the annual budget and strategic plan
are approved in advance by the Board of Directors. The Personnel Committee
assesses these factors and makes a recommendation on the CEO's performance and
resulting base salary and incentive compensation to the full Board of Directors
for approval.

                                                      Respectfully Submitted,


                                                      Stewart C. Adams, Jr.
                                                      Harry C. Schumacher
                                                      Kevin Sanguinetti
                                                      Edward Corum, Jr.



             Report of the Audit Committee of the Board of Directors

     The Audit Committee oversees relevant accounting, risk assessment, risk
management and regulatory matters. It meets with the Bank's and the Company's
internal auditors and the independent auditors to review the scope of their work
as well as to review quarterly and annual financial statements and regulatory
and public disclosures with the officers in charge of financial reporting,
control and disclosure functions. After reviewing the independent auditor's
qualifications, partner rotation and independence, the Audit Committee also
makes an annual recommendation to the Board of Directors regarding selection of
the independent auditors. In addition, the Audit Committee reviews reports of
examination conducted by regulatory agencies and follows up with management
concerning any recommendations and required corrective action.

     The Audit Committee reports regularly to the Boards of Directors of the
Bank and the Company and has the authority to select, retain, terminate and
approve the fees and other retention terms of special counsel or other experts
or consultants as it deems appropriate and necessary to perform its duties. Each
of the Directors serving on the Audit Committee has been determined by the Board
of Directors to be "independent" as such term is defined by Rule 4200(a)(15) of
the NASD's current listing standards.

     In performing its functions, the Audit Committee acts only in an oversight
capacity and necessarily relies on the work and assurances of management, which
has the primary responsibility for financial statements and reports, and of the
independent auditors, who, in their report, express an opinion on the conformity
of the Company's annual financial statements to generally accepted accounting
principles.

     In connection with the December 31, 2003 financial statements of the
Company, the audit committee: (1) reviewed and discussed the audited financial
statements with management; (2) discussed with the independent auditors the
matters required by Statement on Auditing Standards No. 61; and (3) received and
discussed with the independent auditors the matters required by Independence
Standards Board Statement No. 1. Based upon these reviews and discussions, the
Audit Committee recommended to the Board of Directors that the audited financial
statements be included in the Annual Report on Form 10-K filed with the
Securities and Exchange Commission for the year ended December 31, 2003.

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     The Board of Directors has approved a written charter of the Audit
Committee which is attached to this Proxy Statement as Exhibit A hereto.

                                                     Respectfully submitted,


                                                     Harry C. Schumacher
                                                     Robert F. Hunnell
                                                     Ralph Burlington


                            Audit and Non-Audit Fees

Audit-Related Fees

     The aggregate fees billed by PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP for assurance and
related services that are reasonably related to the performance of the audit and
review of the Company's quarterly and annual financial statements for fiscal
years 2003 and 2002 were $134,011 and $100,000 respectively.

Tax Fees

     The aggregate fees billed by PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP for professional
services for tax compliance, tax advice and tax planning, for fiscal years 2003
and 2002 were $12,039 and $18,500 respectively.

Pre-approval of Services by PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP

     The Audit Committee has adopted a policy for pre-approval of audit and
permitted non-audit services by the Company's external auditor. The Audit
Committee will consider annually and, if appropriate, approve the provisions of
audit services by its independent auditor and consider, and if appropriate,
pre-approve the provision of certain defined audit and non-audit services. The
Audit Committee will also consider on a case-by-case basis and, if appropriate,
approve specific engagements that are not otherwise pre-approved.

     Any proposed engagement that does not fit within the definition of a
pre-approved service may be presented to the Audit Committee for consideration
at its next regular meeting or, if earlier consideration is required, to the
Audit Committee or one or more of its members. The member or members to whom
such authority is delegated shall report any specific approval of services at
its next regular meeting. The Audit Committee will regularly review summary
reports detailing all services being provided by its external auditor.

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Executive Officers

     Set forth below is certain information regarding the executive officers of
the Bank, with the exception of Mr. Steinwert and Mr. Mettler whose information
is set forth under "Nominees":



Name and Position(s)                 Age                  Principal Occupation during the Past Five Years

                                      
Richard S. Erichson                  56      Executive  Vice  President and Senior  Credit  Officer of the Company and
Executive Vice President                     Bank.
& Senior Credit Officer

Deborah E. Hodkin                    41      Executive Vice President &  Chief  Administrative  Officer of the Company
Executive Vice President &                   and Bank since December 2000,  prior thereto,  Executive Vice President &
Chief Administrative Officer                 Chief Operations Officer of Union Safe Deposit Bank.
and Secretary

Chris C. Nelson                      49      Executive  Vice  President  and Head of Retail  Banking of the Bank since
Executive Vice President & Head              December 2001,  prior thereto Vice President  On-line  Regional Sales and
of Retail Banking                            Marketing  Wells  Fargo  Bank  since  2001,  prior  thereto  Senior  Vice
                                             President, E-Commerce of Bank of America.

Stephen W. Haley                     50      Executive Vice President and Chief  Financial  Officer of the Company and
Executive Vice President                     Bank since April  2003,  prior  thereto,  President  and Chief  Operating
& Chief Financial Officer                    Officer of Community West Bancshares  since 2001,  prior thereto,  Senior
                                             Vice  President,  Finance and Risk  Management of United PanAm  Financial
                                             Corp.

Kenneth W. Smith                     44      Executive  Vice  President & Head of  Business  Banking of the Bank since
Executive Vice President & Head              January  2004,   prior   thereto,   Senior  Vice   President  and  Credit
of Business Banking                          Administrator of the Bank.




Compensation of Directors and Executive Officers

     A Director who is not an employee of the Bank receives a fee for each Bank
Board Meeting attended. The Board Meeting fee is $875, and the Committee Meeting
fee is $200. In addition, each Director who is not an employee of the Bank
received a $12,000 bonus in 2003. Directors may elect to defer receipt of some
or all Directors' fees. Directors who are employees of the Bank (Messrs.
Mettler, Steinwert and Wishek) do not receive compensation for their services as
Directors.

     Directors who are not active officers in the Bank do not participate in any
retirement plans.


     All Directors are permitted to participate in the Bank's group insurance
plan along with salaried employees. This plan is funded 67% by the Bank and 33%
by the Directors. Directors who choose not to participate in the Bank's group
insurance plan are compensated in an amount equal to the Bank's share of the
cost had they participated.

     The Bank plans to continue the payment of such fees for regular meetings of
the Board and of the Committees of the Board.

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     The following table sets forth the aggregate remuneration paid by the Bank
during 2003, 2002 and 2001 for the services performed in all capacities by the
Chief Executive Officer and each of the most highly compensated Executive
Officers for whom disclosure is required.

Summary Compensation Table


                                                                                               Long Term
                                                           -- Annual Compensation --   -- Compensation Awards --
--------------- ------------------------------ --------- -------------- ------------- -------------- ---------------

                                                                                         Defined        Deferred
     Name                   Title                                                     Contribution       Bonus
                                                 Year      Salary(1)       Bonus          Plans           Plan
--------------- ------------------------------ --------- -------------- ------------- -------------- ---------------

                                                                                          
K.A. Steinwert  President & Chief Executive      2003         $382,110      $375,000        $93,678         $97,891
                Officer of the Company and
                the Bank                         2002          373,235       250,000         25,855          88,967

                                                 2001          252,178       220,000         12,875          81,662
--------------- ------------------------------ --------- -------------- ------------- -------------- ---------------

R.S. Erichson   Executive Vice President &       2003         $199,272       $80,000        $49,706         $23,328
                Senior Credit Officer of the
                Company and the Bank             2002          205,168        65,000         25,855          21,201

                                                 2001          176,162        60,000         12,875          19,461
--------------- ------------------------------ --------- -------------- ------------- -------------- ---------------

D.E. Hodkin     Executive Vice President,        2003         $187,159       $80,000        $49,713         $23,328
                Chief Administrative Officer
                and Secretary of the Company     2002          207,146        70,000         25,855          21,201
                and the Bank
                                                 2001          170,623        45,000         12,875          19,461
--------------- ------------------------------ --------- -------------- ------------- -------------- ---------------

C.C. Nelson     Executive Vice President,        2003         $170,704       $75,000        $58,078         $23,328
                Head of Retail Banking of
                the Bank  (Effective             2002          164,721        30,000         25,022          21,201
                Dec. 10, 2001)
                                                 2001            8,831
--------------- ------------------------------ --------- -------------- ------------- -------------- ---------------
S.W. Executive Vice President,
Haley           Chief Financial Officer of       2003         $137,898       $35,000        $30,744         $18,046
                the Company and the Bank
                (Effective April 1, 2003)        2002

                                                 2001
--------------- ------------------------------ --------- -------------- ------------- -------------- ---------------
S.A. Executive Vice President &
Fleming (2)     Head of Business Banking of      2003         $174,608       $75,000             $0              $0
                the Bank
                                                 2002          196,835        65,000         25,855          21,201

                                                 2001           29,817
--------------- ------------------------------ --------- -------------- ------------- -------------- ---------------


(1)  In 2002 Bank employees received a one-time payment for accrued and unused
     vacation as a part of a program to redesign the Bank's vacation benefit.
(2)  Mr. Fleming's employment with the Bank ended April 22, 2003.


Defined Benefit Pension Plan

     Effective June 9, 2001, with the exception of employees who have reached
age 55 and who have accumulated 10 years of service (as defined in the Plan),
the Bank's Defined Benefit Plan was amended to freeze the benefit accruals of
the Plan participants.

     The maximum annual retirement benefits, which any of the above named
individuals would be entitled to receive, as Officers of the Bank, assuming that
all applicable conditions of the plan are met, is $18,000 annually. Mr. Mettler
elected to withdraw his vested interest the year he reached normal retirement
age 65 and is no longer a participant in the Defined Benefit Pension Plan.
Current rules permit the inclusion of a pension plan table demonstrating
benefits payable upon retirement. Since the maximum compensation payable to any
employee, including Executive Officers is $18,000 per year, a pension table has
been excluded.

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     The annual benefits payable upon retirement at "normal retirement age" for
each of the named executive officers, e.g., if they remain employees until they
reach age 65, the annual benefits upon retirement at normal retirement age will
be as follows: K.A. Steinwert, $6,125; R.S. Erichson, $4,125; D.E. Hodkin, $0;
C.C. Nelson, $0; S.W. Haley, $0, K.W. Smith $1,783. If not defined in the plan
document, "normal retirement age" is the earliest time at which a participant
may retire without any benefit reduction due to age (i.e., the age at which
benefits are not reduced because of early retirement).


Defined Contribution Plans

Money Purchase Plan

     A Money Purchase Plan was established by the Bank on January 1, 2001 to
replace the defined benefit pension plan that was frozen effective June 9, 2001.
Substantially all full-time employees of the Bank with one or more years of
service participate in the Money Purchase Plan, with the exception of employees
that have reached age 55 and have accumulated 10 years of service who continue
to accrue benefits under the Defined Benefit Pension Plan. Contributions to the
Money Purchase Plan are made according to the predetermined set of criteria set
forth in the Money Purchase Plan and the Board can terminate the plan at any
time. The Bank contributed $575,000 for the year ended December 31, 2003 and
$522,000 for the year ended December 31, 2002. Benefits pursuant to the Money
Purchase Plan vest 0% during the first year of participation, 25% per full year
thereafter and after five years such benefits are fully vested.

Profit Sharing Plan

     Substantially all full-time employees of the Bank with one or more years of
service also participate in a defined contribution profit sharing plan.
Contributions to the profit sharing plan are made at the discretion of the Board
of Directors and the Board can terminate the plan at any time. The Bank
contributed $635,000 in 2003 and $625,000 in 2002. Benefits pursuant to the
Profit Sharing Plan vest 0% during the first year of participation, 25% per full
year thereafter and after five years such benefits are fully vested.

     Effective January 20, 2004 for the plan year beginning January 1, 2004,
solely for administrative purposes the Bank combined the Money Purchase and
Profit Sharing Plans into one plan, called the Profit Sharing Plan. All benefits
remain the same as under the individual plans.

Indexed Retirement Plan and Life Insurance Arrangements

     During 2003, the Bank implemented an Indexed Retirement Plan for the
benefit of each executive officer as well as certain other senior officers of
the Bank. The Indexed Retirement Plan is a defined contribution supplemental
executive retirement plan and was developed to supplement the Bank's qualified
retirement program which has a ceiling on benefits as set by the Internal
Revenue Service. Individuals whose compensation exceeded this ceiling did not
receive a retirement benefit on these earnings. The Indexed Retirement Plan was
designed to adjust for these limits and provide levels of total compensation
that are competitive in the banking industry.

     The Bank has also purchased single premium life insurance policies on the
lives of the executive officers as well as certain other senior officers of the
Bank. These policies provide: (1) financial protection to the Company in the
event of the death of an officer and, (2) since the interest earned on the cash
surrender value of the policies is tax free as long as the policies are used to
finance employee benefits, significant income to the Bank to offset the expense
associated with the Indexed Retirement Plan.

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     The Board has structured the Plan as a defined contribution plan to avoid
the uncertain future financial liabilities that can exist under a defined
benefit plan. An account is established for each participant that is credited
annually with an amount based on the taxable equivalent earnings on the cash
surrender value balances of the single premium life insurance policies purchased
on each participant's life, net of: (1) the mortality charges associated with
the policies, and (2) a minimum required return (defined under the Plan as the
return on five year treasuries) to the Bank on these cash surrender value
balances. The initial cash surrender value of the life insurance policies
purchased for each participant was determined based upon the individual's
compensation at the time they became a participant in the plan and the number of
years of service remaining to age 65 so as to provide a supplemental retirement
benefit equal to a portion of the participant's projected final pay with the
Bank. Benefits become payable to participants after either: (1) the participant
has become vested and his or her employment at the Bank terminates (including
retirement), or (2) there has been a "Change in Control" as defined in the Plan.
The balance in each executive's account is 0% vested during the first five years
of employment and becomes fully vested after five years of employment.

     As compensation to each participant for agreeing to allow the Bank to
purchase an insurance policy on his or her life, split dollar agreements have
been entered into with each participant. These agreements provide for a division
of the life insurance death proceeds between the Bank and each participant's
designated beneficiary or beneficiaries. The dollar value of premiums relating
to that portion of the death proceeds that would be payable to the executive's
beneficiary or beneficiaries in the event of his or her death, is included in
the executive's Salary in the Summary Compensation Table. As of December 31,
2003 a total of 19 employees had agreed to allow the Bank to purchase an
insurance policy on their life.

     As of December 31, 2003 the total cash surrender value balances of the
insurance policies was $33.7 million. Since the purchase of the first insurance
policies in late 2001, the Bank has earned taxable equivalent income (assuming a
42.06% tax rate) on these policies of $5.1 million, and recorded an expense of
$270,000 for the Indexed Retirement Plan. The Bank's total accrued liability
under the Indexed Retirement Plan was $270,000 as of December 31, 2003.


Deferred Bonus Plan

     Each of the CEO and the other Executive Officers are participants under the
Deferred Bonus Plan and are entitled to receive cash payments based on the
long-term cumulative profitability of the Bank and its subsidiaries and a bonus
factor determined for each participant. Deferred bonuses become payable to
eligible participants after either the participant has become vested and his or
her employment at the Bank terminates or there has been a "Change in Control" as
defined in the Plan. Benefits pursuant to the Deferred Bonus Plan vest 0% during
the first year of participation, 25% per full year thereafter and after five
years such benefits are fully vested.


Employment Contracts and Termination of Employment and Change in Control
Arrangements

     The Bank has an employment agreement in place with Kent A. Steinwert, the
Bank's President and Chief Executive Officer. The agreement, which expires on
December 4, 2005, is automatically renewable for additional two-year terms
unless notice is provided. The agreement provides for a minimum base salary of
$250,000 annually, salary increases at the discretion of the Board of Directors
based upon performance, use of a Bank-owned automobile and certain insurance
benefits. Under certain circumstances, in the event of termination of his
employment, Mr. Steinwert may be entitled to receive severance compensation as
set forth in his employment agreement up to an amount equal to twice his annual
base salary.

     The Bank has an employment agreement in place with Richard S. Erichson, the
Bank's Executive Vice President and Senior Credit Officer. The agreement, which
expires on November 30, 2004, is automatically renewable for additional 1-year
terms unless notice is provided. The agreement provides for a minimum base
salary of $178,008 annually, salary increases at the times that the salaries of
the other executive officers of the Bank are adjusted, use of a Bank-owned
automobile and certain insurance benefits. Under certain circumstances, in the
event of termination of his employment, Mr. Erichson may be entitled to receive
severance compensation as set forth in his employment agreement up to an amount
equal to his annual base salary.

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     The Bank has an employment agreement in place with Deborah E. Hodkin, the
Bank's Executive Vice President and Chief Administrative Officer. The agreement,
which expires on December 29, 2004, is automatically renewable for additional
1-year terms unless notice is provided. The agreement provides for a minimum
base salary of $165,000 annually, salary increases at the times that the
salaries of the other executive officers of the Bank are adjusted, use of a
Bank-owned automobile and certain insurance benefits. Under certain
circumstances, in the event of termination of her employment, Ms. Hodkin may be
entitled to receive severance compensation as set forth in her employment
agreement up to an amount equal to her annual base salary.

     The Bank has an employment agreement in place with Chris C. Nelson, the
Bank's Executive Vice President and Head of Retail Banking. The agreement, which
expires on December 10, 2004, is automatically renewable for additional one-year
terms unless notice is provided. The agreement provides for a minimum base
salary of $145,016 annually, salary increases at the times that the salaries of
the other executive officers of the Bank are adjusted, use of a Bank-owned
automobile and certain insurance benefits. Under certain circumstances, in the
event of termination of his employment, Mr. Nelson may be entitled to receive
severance compensation as set forth in his employment agreement up to an amount
equal to his annual base salary.

     The Bank entered into an employment agreement on April 1, 2003 with Stephen
W. Haley, the Bank's Executive Vice President and Chief Financial Officer. The
agreement, which expires on April 1, 2006, is automatically renewable for
additional one-year terms unless notice is provided. The agreement provides for
a minimum base salary of $178,008 annually, salary increases at the times that
the salaries of the other executive officers of the Bank are adjusted, use of a
Bank-owned automobile and certain insurance benefits. Under certain
circumstances, in the event of termination of his employment, Mr. Haley may be
entitled to receive severance compensation as set forth in his employment
agreement up to an amount equal to his annual base salary.

     The Bank has not entered into any other employment agreements.

Certain Relationships and Related Transactions

     Certain Directors and executive officers of the Bank and the Company and
corporations and other organizations associated with them and members of their
immediate families were customers of and engaged in banking transactions,
including loans, with the Bank in the ordinary course of business in 2003. Such
loans were made on substantially the same terms, including interest rates and
collateral, as those available at the time for similar transactions with other
persons. These loans did not involve more than the normal risk of collection or
have other unfavorable features.

Compensation Committee Interlocks and Insider Participation

     Messrs. Schumacher, Sanguinetti, Corum and Adams, none of whom is or has
been an officer or employee of the Company, served in 2003 as members of the
Personnel Committee. During 2003, members of the Personnel Committee had loans
or other extensions of credit outstanding from the Bank. These loans were made
in the ordinary course of business and on substantially the same terms,
including interest rates and collateral, as those prevailing at the time for
comparable transactions with other persons. These loans are exempt from the loan
prohibitions of the Sarbanes-Oxley Act of 2002 and did not involve more than the
normal risk of collection or have other unfavorable features.

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Indemnification

     The Company's Certificate of Incorporation and By-Laws provide for
indemnification of officers, Directors, employees and agents to the fullest
extent permitted by Delaware law. Delaware law generally provides for the
payment of expenses, including attorneys' fees, judgments, fines and amounts
paid in settlement reasonably incurred by the indemnitees provided such person
acted in good faith and in a manner he or she reasonably believed not to be
opposed to the best interests of the corporation and with respect to any
criminal action or proceeding if he or she had no reasonable cause to believe
his or her conduct was unlawful. However, in derivative suits, if the suit is
lost, no indemnification is permitted in respect of any claim as to which the
prospective indemnitee is adjudged to be liable for misconduct in the
performance of his or her duty to the Company and then only if, and only to the
extent that, a court of competent jurisdiction determines the prospective
indemnitee is fairly and reasonably entitled to indemnity for such expenses as
the court deems proper. Finally, no indemnification may be provided in any
action or suit in which the only liability asserted against a Director is
pursuant to a statutory provision proscribing the making of loans, dividends,
and distribution of assets under certain circumstances.

     The provisions regarding indemnification may not be applicable under
certain federal banking and securities laws and regulations.

Compliance with Section 16(a) of the Exchange Act

     Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, as amended, requires
the Company's executive officers and Directors, and persons who own more than
ten percent of a registered class of the Company's equity securities, to file
reports of ownership on Forms 3, 4 and 5 with the Securities and Exchange
Commission. Officers, Directors and greater than ten percent stockholders are
required by regulation to furnish the Company with copies of all Forms 3, 4 and
5 they file. Based solely on the Company's review of the copies of such forms it
has received, the Company believes that all of its officers and Directors
complied with all filing requirements applicable to them with respect to
transactions during 2003. The Company has no greater than ten percent
stockholders.

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Performance Graph

     The following graph compares the yearly percentage change in the Company's
cumulative total shareholder return on common stock with (i) the cumulative
total return of the American Stock Exchange market index, and (ii) a published
index compiled by Media General Financial Services, Inc. of banks and bank
holding companies throughout the United States (the industry group line depicted
in the graph that follows). The following comparison covers the period January
1, 1999 to December 31, 2003. The graph assumes an initial investment of $100 on
January 1, 1999 and reinvestment of dividends. The stock price performance set
forth in the following graph is not necessarily indicative of future price
performance.

     This graph shall not be deemed filed or incorporated by reference into any
filing under the Securities Act of 1933 or under the Securities Exchange Act of
1934, except to the extent that we specifically incorporate this graph by
reference.


_______________________________________________________________________________
*Prior to March 10, 1999, Farmers and Merchants Bank of Central California.



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Security Ownership of Certain Beneficial Owners and Management

     To the knowledge of the Company, as of the record date, no person or entity
was the beneficial owner of more than five percent (5%) of the outstanding
shares of the Company's common stock except as set forth in the following
tables. For the purpose of this disclosure and the disclosure of ownership
shares by management, shares are considered to be "beneficially" owned if the
person has or shares the power to vote or direct the voting of the shares, the
power to dispose of or direct the disposition of the shares, or the right to
acquire beneficial ownership (as so defined) within 60 days of the record date.

                 Name and Address            Amount and Nature of     Percent
Title of Class   of Beneficial Owner         Beneficial Ownership (1) of Class
--------------   -------------------         --------------------     --------

Common Stock     Sheila M. Wishek                     47,110            6.17%
                 2200 Polk St.
                 San Francisco, CA 94109
Common Stock     C.A. Wishek, Jr.                     41,684            5.46%
                 P.O. Box 906
                 Lodi, CA 95241
Common Stock     Bruce Mettler                        40,761            5.34%
                 17901 N. Cherry Road
                 Lodi, CA 95240
Common Stock     Joan Rider                           38,994            5.11%
                 26 Corrala Vista Drive
                 Watsonville, CA, 95076
----------------------

(1)  Shares are beneficially owned, directly and indirectly, together with
     spouses, and unless otherwise indicated, holders share voting power with
     their spouses.

     The following table shows the number of common shares and the percentage of
the total shares of common stock of the Company beneficially owned (as
previously discussed) by each of the current Directors, by each of the nominees
for election to the office of Director, by the Chief Executive Officer and the
four other most highly compensated executive officers of the Bank and by all
Directors and executive officers of the Company and of the Bank as a group as of
the record date.

                                             Amount of Common Stock
                                              Owned and Nature of      Percent
Name and Address of Beneficial Owner (1)    Beneficial Ownership (2)   of Class
----------------------------------------    ------------------------   --------

Stewart C. Adams, Jr.                                   1,594              *
Ralph Burlington                                        2,788              *
Edward Corum, Jr.                                          42              *
Richard S. Erichson                                       817              *
Stephen A. Fleming                                          0              *
Stephen W. Haley                                           85              *
Deborah E. Hodkin                                         116              *
Robert F. Hunnell                                       1,606              *
Ole R. Mettler                                         24,806            3.25%
Chris C. Nelson                                           107              *
James R. Podesta                                          958              *
Kevin Sanguinetti                                       3,395              *
Harry C. Schumacher                                     4,941              *
Kenneth W. Smith                                          103              *
Kent A. Steinwert                                       3,660              *
Calvin (Kelly) Suess                                      847              *
Carl A. Wishek, Jr.                                    41,684            5.46%

All Directors and executive officers
 as a group (17 persons)                               87,549           11.47%
-------------------
*        Indicates less than 1%.
(1)  Unless otherwise indicated, the business address for each of the persons
     listed in the table is 111 West Pine Street, Lodi, CA, 95240-2184.
(2)  Shares are beneficially owned, directly and indirectly, together with
     spouses, and, unless otherwise indicated, holders share voting power with
     their spouses.

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                                   PROPOSAL 2

                            RATIFICATION OF AUDITORS

         At the meeting a vote will be taken on a proposal to ratify the
appointment of PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP, by the Audit Committee of the Board
of Directors, to act as independent auditors of the Company for the year ending
December 31, 2004. PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP are independent accountants.
Representatives of PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP are not expected to be present at
the meeting.

          THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS RECOMMENDS A VOTE FOR RATIFICATION OF
           PRICEWATERHOUSECOOPERS LLP AS INDEPENDENT AUDITORS FOR THE
                         YEAR ENDING DECEMBER 31, 2004.

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                 STOCKHOLDER PROPOSALS FOR 2005 PROXY STATEMENT

     Under the Rules of the Securities and Exchange Commission, if a stockholder
intends to include a proposal in the Company's Proxy Statement and form of proxy
for presentation at the Company's 2005 Annual Meeting of Stockholders, the
proposal must be received by the Company at its principal executive offices by
November 18, 2004.

     In addition to these advance notice requirements, there are other
requirements that a stockholder must meet in order to have a proposal included
in the Company's Proxy Statement under the rules of the Securities and Exchange
Commission.

     In addition, Article III, Section 3.4 of the By-Laws of the Company
provides a procedure for nomination for election of members of the Board of
Directors of the Company. Nominations for election to the Board of Directors may
be made by the Board of Directors or by any holder of any outstanding class of
capital stock of the Company entitled to vote for the election of Directors.
Nominations, other than those made by the Board of Directors, shall be made by
notification in writing delivered or mailed to the President of the Company not
less than thirty (30) days or more than sixty (60) days prior to any meeting of
stockholders called for election of Directors, provided, however, that if less
than twenty-one (21) days notice of the meeting is given to stockholders, such
nomination shall be mailed or delivered to the President of the Company not
later than the close of business on the seventh (7th) day following the day on
which the notice of meeting was mailed. If the Company's 2005 Annual Meeting of
Stockholders is held on the third Monday of April (as it will be in 2004), any
stockholder nomination, to be timely, must be received by the Company not later
than March 19, 2005 and not earlier than February 17, 2005. Notification must
contain certain information as to each proposed nominee and as to each person
acting alone or in conjunction with one or more persons, in making such
nomination or in organizing, directing or financing such nomination. If the
Chairman of the meeting acknowledges the nomination of a person not made in
accordance with the foregoing procedures, the persons named as proxies in the
proxy materials relating to the meeting will use their discretion in voting the
proxies when the nomination is made at the meeting. A copy of the By-Laws of the
Company can be obtained by written request to the Secretary of the Company,
Deborah Hodkin, 111 West Pine Street, Lodi, CA 95240-2184.

     Pursuant to Article II, Section 2.6 of the Company's By-Laws, in order for
other business to be properly brought before a meeting by a stockholder, the
stockholder must have given timely notice thereof in writing to the Secretary of
the Company and must have been a stockholder of record at the time such notice
is given. To be timely, a stockholder's notice shall be delivered to or mailed
(by United States registered mail, return receipt requested) and received at the
principal executive offices of the Company not less than seventy (70) days nor
more than ninety (90) days prior to the first anniversary date of the preceding
year's annual meeting; provided, however, that in the event that the date of the
annual meeting is advanced by more than twenty (20) days, or delayed by more
than seventy (70) days, from such anniversary date, notice by a stockholder to
be timely must be so delivered or mailed (by U.S. registered mail, return
receipt requested) and received not earlier than the ninetieth (90th) day prior
to such annual meeting and not later than the close of business on the later of
the seventieth (70th) day prior to such annual meeting or the tenth (10th) day
following the day on which public announcement of the date of such meeting is
first made. Notice of any stockholder proposal by a stockholder to properly
bring business before the 2005 annual meeting, to be timely, must be received by
the Company no later than February 7, 2005, and no earlier than January 18,
2005. Such stockholder's notice to the Secretary must contain certain additional
information, which is more particularly described in Article II, Section 2.6 of
the Company's By-Laws. No business shall be conducted at an annual meeting of
stockholders unless proposed in accordance with the foregoing procedures. The
Chairman of the meeting shall, if the factors warrant, determine and declare to
the meeting that business was not properly brought before the meeting in
accordance with the foregoing procedure and such business shall not be
transacted.

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                                  ANNUAL REPORT

     Together with this proxy statement, Farmers & Merchants Bancorp has
distributed to each of its stockholders an annual report for the year ended
December 31, 2003. The annual report contains the consolidated financial
statements of the Company and the Bank and the report thereon of
PricewaterhouseCoopers LLP, the Company's independent public accountants.

     Upon written request by any person entitled to vote at the meeting,
addressed to Deborah Hodkin, Secretary of the Company, at 111 West Pine Street,
Lodi, CA 95240-2184, we will provide, without charge, a copy of the Company's
2003 Annual Report on Form 10-K, including the financial statements and the
schedules thereto filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission pursuant to
the Securities Exchange Act of 1934. You can also obtain a copy of the Company's
annual report on form 10-K and other periodic filings with the Securities and
Exchange Commission through the F&M Bank website. The Company address is
http://www.fmbonline.com. The link to the Securities and Exchange Commission is
on the About F&M Bank page

                                  OTHER MATTERS

     The Management and Directors of the Company are not aware of any other
matters to be presented for consideration at the meeting to be held on April 19,
2004 or any adjournments or postponements thereof. If any other matters should
properly come before the meeting, it is intended that the persons named in the
enclosed proxy will vote the shares represented thereby in accordance with their
best business judgment, pursuant to the discretionary authority granted therein.



         BY ORDER OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS



         /s/ Deborah Hodkin
         Deborah Hodkin
         Secretary

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                                    Exhibit A

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                             Audit Committee Charter
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The Audit Committee Charter provides general guidelines for members of the Audit
Committee (Committee) for the Board of Directors of Farmers & Merchants Bank of
Central California (Bank). These guidelines will assist the Committee in its
efforts to ensure ongoing adequacy of the Bank's internal audit system as
recommended by section 132 of the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation
Improvement Act of 1991 (FDICIA), Securities Exchange Commission and the AICPA's
Auditing Standards Board. The Audit Committee of the Board of Directors of the
Bank shall also serve to discharge the functions and responsibilities of the
Committee of the Board of Directors of the Company, as described hereinafter.

COMMITTEE MEMBERSHIP
The Committee shall be composed of at least three outside Directors of the Board
who are independent of the management of the Bank and the Company. The Board
shall annually determine whether members are "independent" of management of the
Bank and the Company as such term is defined by Rule 4200(a)(14) of the NASD's
current listing standards.

To maintain independence, members may not (directly or indirectly):
o    accept any consulting, advisory or other compensatory fee from the Bank or
     Bancorp, other than in his or her capacity as a member of the audit
     committee, board or other board committee; or

o    be affiliated with the Bank, Bancorp or any subsidiary.

DESIGNATION OF AUDIT COMMITTEE FINANCIAL EXPERT
The Committee shall designate one of its members as a "financial expert". The
financial expert is an individual who is determined by the board of Directors to
possess all of the following attributes:

o    an understanding of financial statements and generally accepted accounting
     principles (GAAP);
o    an ability to assess the general application of such principles in
     connection with the accounting for estimates, accruals and reserves;
o    experience preparing, auditing, analyzing or evaluating financial
     statements that present a breadth and level of complexity of accounting
     issues generally comparable to what can be expected to be raised by the
     Bank's or Bancorp's financial statements or experience actively supervising
     one or more persons engaged in such activities;
o    an understanding of internal controls and procedures for financial
     reporting; and
o    an understanding of audit committee functions.

These attributes may be acquired by:

o    education and experience as a principal financial officer, principal
     accounting officer, controller, public accountant, or auditor, or
     experience in one or more positions that involve the performance of similar
     functions;
o    experience actively supervising a principal financial officer, principal
     accounting officer, controller, public accountant, auditor, or person
     performing similar functions or experience overseeing or assessing the
     performance of companies or public accountants with respect to the
     preparation, auditing, or evaluation of financial statements; and/or
o    other relevant experience.

COMMITTEE MEETINGS

The Committee shall meet at least bi-monthly to review all recent audit reports
(including reports by internal auditors, independent public accountants, and/or
regulatory agencies). Management reports shall also be reviewed as they relate
to audit findings. The Committee shall maintain and report to the Boards of the
Company and the Bank, minutes and other relevant records of their meetings and
decisions.

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AUDIT SYSTEM
The Committee shall approve an internal audit system, which provides for:

o    Audit Programs. These items will be annually presented by the auditor:
     -    scope and frequency of the audit work;
     -    documentation of the work performed; and
     -    conclusions reached and reports issued.

o    Program Effectiveness. Audit Reports and responses thereto shall be
     presented to determine if controls are effective and if appropriate
     corrective action has been taken.

o    Audit Arrangements. The independent auditor, operations auditor and credit
     examination vendors are ultimately accountable to the Board of Directors
     and Audit Committee. It is management's responsibility to evaluate and
     recommend vendor selection and replacement. It is the Committee's
     responsibility to review management's recommendation and recommend approval
     to the Board of Directors. It is the Board's responsibility to approve and
     replace the independent auditor, if deemed appropriate or necessary. The
     Committee shall preapprove all non-audit engagements of the independent
     auditor. The Committee shall review the report by the independent auditor
     which is required by Section 10A of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934.
     The following information shall be presented to the Committee with
     Management's recommendations at least annually:
     -    Written Agreement. Annual written contract or engagement letter.
     -    Vendor Competence. A resume and references for each individual
          responsible for maintaining the audit relationship.
     -    Vendor Independence. A formal written statement of independence.

RESPONSIBILITIES
The Committee shall:
o    review the Forms 10-Q and 10-K prior to presentation to the Board and
     filing with the Securities Exchange Commission and recommend inclusion of
     the Company's financial statements therein;
o    report to the Board that its members have reviewed the Forms 10-Q and 10-K,
     and whether anything came to the attention of the Committee members which
     caused them to believe that the audited financial statements contain any
     materially misleading statements or omit any material information;
o    review and discuss with management, the internal auditor and the
     independent auditor the matters relating to the conduct of the audit
     required to be discussed by SAS Nos. 61 and 90 (Communications with Audit
     Committees); and
o    ensure that a copy of this Charter is disclosed in the Company's Proxy
     Statement at least every three years.


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